My dear R.N. says always that "your career has a destiny". This is a phrase to pause on for me. What she means is how the advancement in career does not need our struggle, it happens, after we put some energy and thought into it of course.
It is hard sometimes to think that things have their own destiny. Life happens. Death happens. Love happens. Separation happens. And most likely, we had hardly anything to do with them..
Now, career happens too. It has its own course, and it happens.